12 Characteristics

The Power of the Universe is in You and it’s now time to make use of it !

Once a month a different quality will be discussed.
There are now discussed 2 qualities

August 2017
CHARACTERISTIC 10 out of 12 (‘SILENCE & STABILITY’)

08052017 HET BEGIN3 ENGLISH 10Here’s a metaphor about a heated discussion between two people, Peter & Tom. This wasn’t  the first time that Peter had had these kind of discussions. It seemed to be normal for him to go off the deep end with others. He was always convinced that people had to see things his way. Words flew back and forward, when suddenly, for the first time in his life Peter became aware that something that up until now he’d never been conscious of, was bubbling to the surface. He suddenly understood that his words were very hurtful to Tom. Until then, he’d never once stopped to think of the great influence he had on others. Everyone has a AHA-moment, and this sudden awakening touched him deeply. So much so, that he fell completely silent. It was as if his personality had been totally erased and he couldn’t invent a thing to say. He felt insignificant ………… he was nothing! There was nothing! Only silence ……….. How did he work this out? In a fraction of a second he’d changed from someone who always had an answer to everything, to someone who couldn’t get a word out of his mouth. And to be quite honest, it felt peaceful. There was nothing to distract him, no thoughts, emotions, judgements, fear or stress. They were all gone! He felt empty, …… he was himself! He started laughing. Laughing at the person he once thought he was, who was only busy letting off steam and producing nonsence. He was one big joke. No wonder that he could laugh at himself! He started to realise that he was now able to observe that next to his personality there was an intelligence that let him know who he really was. His ‘I am’ came out of the blue. Because he was unbalanced and for the umpteenth time got himself VREDEinto a noisy and exhausting situation, he opened the door to experience the opposite! SILENCE AND STABILITY.

 

He went from WAR to PEACE !

September 2017
CHARACTERISTIC
03 out of 12 (‘THE WORDS I USE’)

08052017 HET BEGIN3 ENGLISH 03Do we ever stop to realize how great an influence our words have, not only on ourselves, but also on others? Every sound we make has its own energy and vibration. We can create a good or bad atmosphere with what we say and how we say it. Do we only react when someone says something, or do we listen and take the time to let it sink in and answer in a peaceful way? As Masaru Emoto says: ‘Words are the vibrations of nature.’
WATERKRISTAL DANKBAARHEIDTherefore, beautiful words create beautiful nature. Ugly words create ugly nature. This is the root of the Universe.
The way we talk to our children has a huge influence on the rest of their lives. Children who are surrounded by people who stimulate them with positive words, take self confidence with them into adulthood. Children who are talked to in a negative way take inferiority with them into adulthood. Here’s an example of an extrovert and intelligent young boy who loved life. He was unique, he was different.  And that’s why the problems started. His parents didn’t understand ‘different’, and instead of trying to do so, they chose to think of him as ‘stupid’.  They felt threatened by his creativity and intelligence, and instead of looking into themselves and finding ways to stimulate him , they took the easy way out and stayed in their narrow mindedness. Onbegrepen Genie E
This little boy grew up in loneliness and pain. His brother and sister, who were more ‘normal’, were looked upon as intelligent, whereas he was looked upon as a misfit. Every young child looks up to its Mother and Father with love and trust. They are the role models they want to copy, and they mean everything to them. But what happens when the child irritates them and they call it stupid? What happens when they do this everyday? The world of the child collapses and it retreats into itself, completely confused and unhappy. The mother and father who were his whole world have refused to accept him as he was.

MAKE OR BRAKEThis little boy grew up and met a young lady who loved him dearly. For her, he was the best in the whole world and she let him know this in her words and acts. Her love healed his wounds.
The energy behind the words we use is so powerful. They can make or break!

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